Tweens (9-12) Archives – Jessica Speer

Helping Kids Re-Enter Their Post Pandemic Social World

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With the pandemic and social distancing, many kids’ social lives are in flux. This article shares how parents can best support their kids.

Where Do I Fit? Big Questions Adolescent Girls Navigate

What is it about adolescence that intensifies social changes and struggles, especially for girls? The answer lies in some big questions girls navigate during this phase.

Three Parent Phrases to Avoid If You Want to Connect With Your Kids

Mother and daughter hugging with text: 3 Phrases to Avoid if You Want to Connect With Your Kids

Words matter. This post shares parent phrases to avoid and what to say instead to connect and foster well-being in kids and teens.

What is Healthy Communication?

In simple terms, healthy communication happens when two people or a group have a discussion, and those involved feel heard and respected.

The Gift of Deep Listening

Deep listening is an essential but increasingly rare skill these days. Yet, it is key to fostering meaningful, supportive relationships.

Yes, Sexting Happens in Middle School. How to Talk to Your Kids About It

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Sexting is defined as the action of sending sexually explicit photos, videos or messages via mobile phone or the internet. Middle school counselors and teachers are concerned about the behavior as it is becoming increasingly common.

Three Magic Phrases To Connect With Your Kids

3 Magic Phrases to connect with your kids

Over the years, these simple phrases have helped me validate my kids’ experiences, stay engaged in their lives, and instill confidence. Do you have a phrase that works like magic in your family?

8 Tips to Support Distance Learning Success

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With parents balancing work and their kids’ home learning needs, it’s not surprising that many families are struggling to find their school groove.

5 Ways to Help Kids Manage Anxiety About Coronavirus

With the constant stream of negative news about coronavirus and so much uncertainty, many kids are feeling fear and anxiety right now. Here’s how parents can help.