Tweens (9-12) Archives – Page 3 of 5 – Jessica Speer

Five Ways to Connect With Tweens and Teens

Despite their increased desire for independence and privacy, tweens and teens need their parents support as much as ever. But how can parents stay connected between all of the eye rolls, closed doors and one word answers?

Introvert or Extrovert: Understanding and Supporting Your Child’s Nature

Are you more of an introvert or an extrovert? What about your child? Knowing your natural tendencies and those of your family will help you better understand and support your loved ones.

Three Ways to Cultivate Respect at Home (and in the World)

Many homes are filled with name calling, fighting, blaming and other forms of disrespect. Here are three ways to create a respectful home.

Dear Parent, Your job is not to be perfect.

Okay, I have to admit that I’m writing this mostly for me. But I’m guessing that I’m not alone on this one.
As a recovering perfectionist, I find that often the hardest person for me to forgive is myself. Anyone else ever experience this?..

Validation – Key to Connecting with Your Kids

Validation means letting kids share their thoughts and feelings without judging or criticizing them. It means that you understand what your child feels is real to her. And it’ a powerful parenting too.

Screen Time: Time for a Family (and National) Conversation?

Did you know that adults spend an average of 49 days a year looking at their phones? And that we unlock our phones an average of 80 times per day?

5 Ways to Connect With Your Family Today

As my kids grow, moments to connect with my family are becoming more limited. So I’m trying not to miss little opportunities for connection when they arise.