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Photo of Jessica Speer, Author with the cover of her books: Breaking the Spiral, The Phone Book, Middle School - Safety Goggles Advised, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends), and 100 First Words for Little Coloradans

Jessica Speer is an award-winning author of books for kids and teens. Blending social science, stories, and fun activities, her writing and presentations explore tricky stuff that surfaces during childhood and adolescence. She has a master’s degree in social sciences and is completing a second master’s degree in mental health counseling.

The Phone Book

The Phone Book by Jessica Speer, Book Cover

Book Summary: Packed with techy tidbits and stories, this book explores healthy phone habits and how to stay safe online. Plus, secret codes reveal the power of your phone and ways to wield it as a force for good.

Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised

Cover of the book Middle School - Safety Goggles Advised

Book Summary: There are cool things about middle school, like more independence and new friends. But there’s baffling stuff too, like the whole “popularity” thing, and, of course, gossip and drama. With fun illustrations and choose-your-own-adventure-style scenarios, this book helps you deal with it all and define who you are when things get weird.

  • 2023 Colorado Book Award Finalist
  • 2023 Purple Dragonfly Book Award Winner

BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)?

A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships

Cover of BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends) A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships

Book Summary: Packed with fun quizzes, illustrations, and stories about girls just like you, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships is the ultimate guidebook to help readers learn the ins and outs of friendship. Explore topics such as gossip, drama, and feeling left out, along with ways to strengthen the friendships that mean the most to you.

100 First Words for Little Coloradans

Book cover of 100 First Words for Little Coloradans by Jessica Speer

Book Summary: Forget apple and dog—little Coloradans are ready to move from ABC to SUP and other Colorado-specific words like granola, crampons, and Casa Bonita (if you know, you know). Packed with hilarious illustrations and 100 words every Colorado-dwelling baby should know, 100 First Words for Little Coloradans is the perfect board book for families who call the Centennial State home.

Jessica Speer’s Latest Blog Posts

Understanding Co-Regulation: A Guide for Caregivers

The article emphasizes the importance of co-regulation between adults and children in managing emotions and fostering healthy development. It outlines strategies for caregivers to support children through difficult emotional moments by modeling regulation, validating feelings, and providing choices. Successful co-regulation promotes children’s resilience and self-regulation skills.

3 Steps Before Giving Your Child a Phone

What is the appropriate age to give your child a phone? Are there steps you should take before this milestone? What rules should be in place for your child’s first phone? Parents today face these tough questions and more. This post shares three things you can do to help your child and your family prepare…

5 Steps to Start a Friendship Group for Kids

My first book, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends), grew out of a kids’ friendship program I ran in schools with small groups of students. Participants gained social awareness and skills alongside their peers through activities and conversations in a fun, supportive environment.  These friendship groups typically met weekly for six to eight weeks.  It’s…