How can parents and caregivers best support their kids as they head back to school? What challenges might kids face this year, given the pandemic?
Back-to-school is going to look and feel REALLY different this year. Parents, school districts, and communities are scrambling to determine what learning environment best suits their unique situation. Whether your child will be learning online, participating in a hybrid model, or some other format, this school year will be filled with change.
As parents, we know that big changes can be stressful for kids. Here are three challenges kids may face as they begin the school year, along with three messages parents can share to help.
Back-to-School: 3 Messages to Share to Help Your Kids
Challenge #1: Social distancing + changing environment + uncertainty = increased anxiety
Parent Message #1: “School is going to look and feel different this year. Change can be hard sometimes. I’m going to keep checking in with you to see how you are doing. I want you to know that I’m here for you as we navigate changes.”
Challenge #2: The pandemic has had a big impact on kids’ social world.
Some kids stayed in touch with friends through social media, virtual meetups, or text, while others did not. Some families allowed their kids to socialize with friends, while others did not. Many schools are breaking kids into smaller groups or moving online, so friends will not be able to connect at school as they have in the past. Many families are struggling, so children may not behave at their best.
Parent Message #2: “This year, focus on being a good friend instead of focusing on others’ behaviors. Stay flexible, kind, and open to new friendships.”
Challenge #3: Online learning burnout, social changes, and uncertainty may challenge motivation.
Most students have been physically out of school for 5+ months. Getting back into a school routine, especially in a different environment, may take extra time and support.
Parent Message #3: “I know this is hard. We can do hard things. Let’s brainstorm ideas that will help.”
Returning to school this year will require flexibility, and most students will need more support than usual. Since this is a stressful time for parents as well, be sure to find support when you need it. Wishing you and your family the best as we navigate the school year ahead.
About Jessica Speer:
Jessica Speer is the award-winning author of books for kids and teens, including The Phone Book – Stay Safe, Be Smart, and Make the World Better with the Powerful Device in Your Hand, BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships and Middle School – Safety Goggles Advised.
Blending social science, stories, and activities, her writing guides readers through tricky stuff that surfaces during childhood and adolescence. She holds a Master’s Degree in Social Sciences and has a knack for writing about complex topics in a way that connects with kids and teens. Jessica regularly contributes to media outlets on content related to kids, parenting, friendship, screens, and social-emotional learning. For more information, visit .JessicaSpeer.com
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