Tag Archives: Teens (13+)

BFF or NRF Friendship Truth #3

Friendship Truth #3: Friendships have different phases and change over time

During the research phase of writing BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships, I honed in on nine “friendship truths.” These truths are simple but easy to forget, especially during times of struggle. I share these truths in my work and my book because they help normalize kids’ experiences. WhetherContinue reading “BFF or NRF Friendship Truth #3”

Posted byJessica Speer, AuthorMarch 24, 2022March 24, 2022Posted inUnderstanding Your Kids Social WorldTags:Friendship Problems, Healthy Family Communication, Social Emotional Skills, Teens (13+), Tweens (9-12)Leave a comment on BFF or NRF Friendship Truth #3

The Friendship Pyramid

The definition of the word “friend” varies from person to person. Maybe it describes the people you spend time with or go to for support. To some, it describes classmates, teammates, or neighbors. To others, it’s all of the above. To add more complexity, people have different expectations and needs in friendship. This ambiguity makesContinue reading “The Friendship Pyramid”

Posted byJessica Speer, AuthorFebruary 17, 2022February 17, 2022Posted inParenting, Understanding Your Kids Social WorldTags:Friendship Problems, Social Emotional Skills, Teens (13+), Tweens (9-12)Leave a comment on The Friendship Pyramid

BFF or NRF Friendship Truth #2

Friendship Truth #2 - Everyone develops friendship skills at a different pace

During the research phase of writing BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships, I honed in on nine “Friendship Truths.” These truths are simple but easy to forget, especially during times of struggle. Friendship Truths I share these truths in my work and my book because they help normalize kids’Continue reading “BFF or NRF Friendship Truth #2”

Posted byJessica Speer, AuthorJanuary 26, 2022January 26, 2022Posted inUnderstanding Your Kids Social WorldTags:Children (4-8), Friendship Problems, Social Emotional Skills, Teens (13+), Tweens (9-12)Leave a comment on BFF or NRF Friendship Truth #2

BFF OR NRF FRIENDSHIP TRUTH #1: Our Healthiest Friendships Feel Safe and Accepting

During the research phase of writing BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)? A Girls Guide to Happy Friendships, I honed in on “friendship truths” that are common yet unfamiliar to many. Truths such as “everyone develops friendship skills at a different pace” and “mistakes happen” are simple but easy to forget, especially during times ofContinue reading “BFF OR NRF FRIENDSHIP TRUTH #1: Our Healthiest Friendships Feel Safe and Accepting”

Posted byJessica Speer, AuthorNovember 30, 2021January 26, 2022Posted inUnderstanding Your Kids Social WorldTags:Friendship Problems, Social Emotional Skills, Teens (13+), Tweens (9-12)Leave a comment on BFF OR NRF FRIENDSHIP TRUTH #1: Our Healthiest Friendships Feel Safe and Accepting

What if my daughter doesn’t want to be friends with someone?

Friendship Question: What if my daughter prefers not to be friends with someone?

What if your daughter prefers not to be friends with someone? How do parents encourage their kids to be kind while also helping them respond to their own needs?

Posted byJessica Speer, AuthorSeptember 16, 2021March 1, 2023Posted inParenting, Understanding Your Kids Social WorldTags:Friendship Problems, Social Emotional Skills, Teens (13+), Tweens (9-12)Leave a comment on What if my daughter doesn’t want to be friends with someone?

Three Truths About Kids’ Friendships

Kids on school bus with the title "3 KIds Friendship Truths to Lean on as Kids Head Back to School"

Whether you are a child, teenager, or adult, friendship gets tricky sometimes. This article shares three friendship truths to guide kids as they head back to school. Our social lives are constantly evolving, especially during childhood and adolescence. Some changes are positive, like making new friends. Others are hard, such as dealing with conflict, betrayal,Continue reading “Three Truths About Kids’ Friendships”

Posted byJessica Speer, AuthorJuly 27, 2021Posted inParenting, Understanding Your Kids Social WorldTags:Children (4-8), Friendship Problems, Healthy Family Communication, Nurturing Connection, Social Emotional Skills, Teens (13+), Tweens (9-12)Leave a comment on Three Truths About Kids’ Friendships

Helping Kids Re-Enter Their Post Pandemic Social World

Kids playing with text "Helping Kids reenter their in-person social worlds"

With the pandemic and social distancing, many kids’ social lives are in flux. This article shares how parents can best support their kids.

Posted byJessica Speer, AuthorMay 26, 2021May 26, 2021Posted inUnderstanding Your Kids Social WorldTags:Children (4-8), Emotion Coaching, Friendship Problems, Social Emotional Skills, Teens (13+), Tweens (9-12)Leave a comment on Helping Kids Re-Enter Their Post Pandemic Social World

Where Do I Fit? Big Questions Adolescent Girls Navigate

What is it about adolescence that intensifies social changes and struggles, especially for girls? The answer lies in some big questions girls navigate during this phase.