These short videos are filled with parenting, relationship, and social-emotional learning tips and insights.
Is it Rude, Mean or Bullying?
Do you and your kids understand the difference between mean and bullying behavior? Understanding the difference helps kids know how to navigate each situation. Full blog post
3 Phrases to Foster Connection
These simple phrases foster connection and help our loved ones feel seen and yeard. Full blog post
5 Ways to Connect With Your Family Today
As our kids grow, there are fewer moments to connect, so it’s even more important to be fully present. Luckily, each day brings a new opportunity to practice. Full blog post
The Yoda Way to Guide Kids through Friendship Struggles
As parents, it’s hard to see our kids struggle. We want to alleviate their pain and solve problems, so we jump right in and offer quick solutions. But often, our efforts only make US feel better. And we miss the opportunity to help our kids navigate their emotions, feel heard and develop healthy relational skills. Full blog post
The Friendship Pyramid
To clarify the different phases and qualities of friendships, I sketched out the first draft of the Friendship Pyramid on a notepad. Over time, the Pyramid grew into the framework I use to help kids navigate their social world. Full blog post
The Gift of Deep Listening
It’s easy to fall into advice or fix-it mode with our kids, colleagues, and friends instead of deeply listening. But, often, the best way to help others grow is simply to listen. And there’s no better way to build connection and trust.. Full blog post
3 Steps to Navigate Family Conflict More Peacefully
Conflict and arguments are inevitable in close relationships, especially with kids and families. When practiced regularly, these three steps will transform arguments in your home. Full blog post
The Surprising Benefits of Family Dinner
Studies find that family dinner offers benefits such as increased academic performance, lower obesity rates, improved well-being, and more. Full blog post
5 Steps to Healthy Communication
Healthy communication happens when two people or a group have a discussion, and those involved feel heard and respected. The goal is to better understand the other person or resolve a problem, not to win or overpower. Full blog post
3 Phrases to Avoid If You Want to Connect With Your Kids
Words matter. This post shares parent phrases to avoid and what to say instead to connect and foster well-being in kids and teens. Full blog post
Fitting-In Vs. Belonging at School…and Home
I’ve been spending time in classrooms doing research for my new book. I’m exploring the “weird stuff” that happens in middle school. I’ve asked over 100 tweens and teens, what should be included in this book and the responses have been powerful. Full blog post
4 Key Relationship Skills for Families
There’s scientific evidence that healthy relationships are foundational to a healthy life. But in childhood or as a young adult did you ever learn the skills that lead to healthy relationships? Parenthood has definitely been my gateway to growth. Here are four relationship skills that I’ve found to be really important in my family. Full blog post
Parents: Understanding the Power of Our Words
In today’s world, it’s so easy to get caught up in “negativity bias,” the human tendency to pay much more attention to the bad things that happen. Our thoughts and words tend to focus more on the negative, overpowering the positive. Full blog post
3 Ways to Cultivate a Respectful Home…and World
Cultivating a home filled with respect does not mean there is no conflict or hurt feelings. We are human after all. But when things are hard, try to make sure everyone feels heard and nobody is thrown under the bus. Full blog post